Swimming Lesson

//i has been three(3) posts back to back.update on my life.having internet connection this week

just came back from swimming
as usual i have the stamina issue
but i like watching the kids learn to swim
it flash back my memory learning how to swim years ago

that's one particular kid that caught my eye
his name is jason
his learning the breast/frog stroke
he could swim but not yet have the confident
each time he take his breathe, as if it was his last breathe
it amusing to see how determine he is
to go from 1 point to another point

there is one instruction is cute
after swimming for a few laps.
i stop an look around
i could see that instructor but than i realize
he is teaching my aunt
is funny to see a grown-women learn to swim
the instructor patiently instruct what to do next

meanwhile, i was at the side talking to another instructor
he said that i could swim and was impressed
but yes, i surely have stamina issues
he asked when did i learn how to swim
after talking for a few minutes, my aunt finished

we went straight home
stop to buy lunch and dessert
magh message asking when i;m coming to Mid
i guess there is some communication breakdown
where no one inform me about the lunch date
but never mind, its okay
will be meeting magh next 2 weeks, insyaallah

lesson learn: when i have kids someday, i will make sure that i enroll them in swimming class. it is easier to learn when u are small rather than u are 30++.

More WeddingS to Come

it started with Kak Lah's wedding
it is fun because all the family gathered in one roof
and yes, it is the first cousin who get married
a new experience for wanhawa+kuhamzah clan

then is kak zarina's wedding
a colleague of mine at work
i get along well with her
cute and friendly
she also loves to watch movies

next, my bestfriend's wedding; intan sofia
last minute invitation
but no hard feelings
everything goes well and a bit like reunion for YT-B
meet haida,dayah,omash,awi,matmin,ali,syarun
these people i met only at this occasion
hope to see more of u guys in the future

this coming march i had 2 wedding invitation
but i could only attend one only
this is because both wedding is at the day

the first is my UTP's friend Magh
she is the first to get married among 10 of us
but i know magh could be a great wife and mother
i know because she always cook for us
and now, she taking care of her brother
yeay magh kamu kawen dulu~

and second is kak HD
my other collegue of mine from office
i always have a nice chat with her
a sweet & quite person but yes she is nice

i really wanted to attend both ceremony
but one is in kelantan and other is in kedah
in two different state
how could i managed to be in 2 places at one time
nevermind, i promise kak HD i will give something to her
i'll post it to kak SMS

and yes, it is only march
i heard that two of my cousin is getting married this year too
but how true is the rumors i dont know
but amir said insyaallah.hahah
and kak chik didn't said anything except that she will get married after finishing her master, and i think she'll be finishing this april

if you are getting married this year or the year to come
don't forget to invite me
i'll try my best to intend your happy days
i dont want to miss to celebrate tour big day

Can Best Friend be Your Life Partner?

**note:it will be a long post and just a thought to myself**

someone asked me about this recently
and this morning i heard about it
at hot fm "AM Krew"
what do you think about it?

for me if you could find bestfriend and life partner in one person
you are lucky because it hard to find one
but for me it just hard to find someone like that
maybe i had a bad experiance with it
bestfriend should stay as bestfriend only
but if later years i end up with my bestfriend
i guess i'm wrong either way
but for now i think bestfriend should remains as bestfriend

it started after i finished school
i'm closed with Z
i felt comfortable talking to him
it just felt that i found someone in common
we play miskol every 3 seconds
it is interesting to have a conversation every 3secs
and we talk stuffs; comics,rugby,girls,boys,etc etc
and one day it just end up somewhere

after a few months
something happened
i receive calls from his secret admirer
then he lost his phone
and then the major point of it
he break with me during my examination weeks
and a few days from my birthday
man, it is a big hit for me
but lucky my grades is not that bad

after breaking off with me thru friendster
3 months later, he come back as a "bestfriend" to me
he acts normally and forgetting the past
i guess i just need to forget it
but what he did is mean
and yeah after he dumps me
he come back to me to ask for my help
what is the favor he ask?
he ask me to help him to tackle a girl
how could that be?
and yeah, to prove that i'm over him
i help him in every way

i guess that we are mean to be bestfriend
but how he ended the r/ship
it just unbelieveable
to be honest,right now
me and him are not friends no more
it just end like that
ackward to meet or have conversation with him
i know i lost a bestfriend but what end just end

now i'm happy with someone else
just to say that bestfriend is not a good candidate to be life partner
your either married them or break the friendship
eventho the friendship is not end
but relationship is not the same as before

but i do have friends which endup with their bestfriends
and they are happily together
they have advantages in knowing each others
but anyhow, who ever we end up with aka married
it is your choice and be happy with it

A Reminder for Myself

here what my relative found in the internet
she shared it with me
just to make me realize how life are

Our Birth is our Opening Balance!
Our Death is our Closing Balance!
Our Prejudiced Views are our Liabilities.
Our Creative Ideas are our Assets.
Heart is our Current Asset.
Soul is our Fixed Asset.
Brain is our Fixed Deposit.
Thinking is our Current Account.
Achievements are our Capital.
Character & Morals, our Stock-in-Trade.
Friends are our General Reserves.
Values & Behavior are our Goodwill.
Love is our Dividend.
Children are our Bonus Issues..
Education is Brands / Patents.
Knowledge is our Investment.
Experience is our Premium Account.
The Aim is to Tally the Balance Sheet Accurately.
The Goal is to get the Best Presented Accounts Award.

My 6th Picture from the 6th Picture Folder [Tagged]

i've been tagged by istenk
istenk, saye setiap minggu pon update blog ape

here's the instruction:-
Go to your photos folder in your computer.
Go to the 6th folder of photos.
Go to the 6th picture in that folder.
Put the picture on your blog and describe about it.
Invite six friends to join the challenge.
Link them in your blog and let them know they have been challenged.



person in the picture - my sisters and also my anak sedare (my cousin's son)
Location? playground near abg azrif's house
When? Last 2 weekend. recent photo actually.
Why I like it? happy faces of the kids playing swings.

now the people that i would like to tag are:
1. hani iryani
2. najia
3. sima
4. hamizah
5. raje
6. magh

My Best Friend's Reception [Part 2]

yes this the 2nd part of the journey
my friend will go back to Australia soon
hope to meet her before she went off
but i hope that her HUSBAND give the permission
sobsobsob
intan biler mahu jumpe lagik nih.

by the way,
now i can share with u
the joyful moments that i had for 2 weeks in a row
(note:zac,aku rase ko dh tgk kot some of the pic)
for the reception.hani wore kebaya which a bit like mine during the majlis akad nikah.
hani kamu tiru saye ek
isk isk isk

but anyhow, enjoy it~

we arrived at the same time as the bride. unplanned.

T.H.E.M
below: you could see the bride dress clearly

the pelamin.just for taking pictures only

above: kami yg mengikut tema pengantin
below: kawan2 yg sudah lame tidak jumpe

dibawah.sebelum demand utk bergambar di pelamin

diatas. selepas kami; hingga tamat majlis, smua mahu bergambar di pelamin.

ali & syarun.

and here is the close-up of the bride.
tapi nih gmbr mase die nikah hari tuh.
she's cute but blur
sape xkenal die sure kate die sombong

i loike this pic because somehow intan seems happy and others trying to understand that feeling.hahah.cewah!

My Best Friend's Wedding

last sunday is the day
went there with najia+nadiah
had a slide accident in the car
but all we manage to do is laughing all the way
arrived at intan's hse nearly 9.40am
but before that dayah's hp keeps on calling
she doesnt realized the phone keep re-dialing

about to go to the mosque
intan's parents ask us to bring the hantaran
**fast forward**
lepas tok kadi tuh bace khutbah kawin(kot)
die tanye intan, "paham x intan sofia"
and as usual, intan had the "look"
then the tok kadi said "intan, kamu nih nmpk blur la,kamu phm x ape saye ckp tadik"
at that time, i laugh hard because i just told intan she is blur
xsangke di approve oleh tok kadi.
intan memaen ek.maaf ek.
heheheheh.

after that we have some food to eat.
the fod was superb
nice + HOT.
udang masak merah die best!!
then we went to "oldtown cafe"
had some coffee and chit-chating
ok, here are some pics of us:





p/s:aduan is going to Adelaide this weekend. will miss him but hope to visit him in this coming 2 years. here is our picture at kak lah's hse.