Saturday, 28 February 2009

Can Best Friend be Your Life Partner?

**note:it will be a long post and just a thought to myself**

someone asked me about this recently
and this morning i heard about it
at hot fm "AM Krew"
what do you think about it?

for me if you could find bestfriend and life partner in one person
you are lucky because it hard to find one
but for me it just hard to find someone like that
maybe i had a bad experiance with it
bestfriend should stay as bestfriend only
but if later years i end up with my bestfriend
i guess i'm wrong either way
but for now i think bestfriend should remains as bestfriend

it started after i finished school
i'm closed with Z
i felt comfortable talking to him
it just felt that i found someone in common
we play miskol every 3 seconds
it is interesting to have a conversation every 3secs
and we talk stuffs; comics,rugby,girls,boys,etc etc
and one day it just end up somewhere

after a few months
something happened
i receive calls from his secret admirer
then he lost his phone
and then the major point of it
he break with me during my examination weeks
and a few days from my birthday
man, it is a big hit for me
but lucky my grades is not that bad

after breaking off with me thru friendster
3 months later, he come back as a "bestfriend" to me
he acts normally and forgetting the past
i guess i just need to forget it
but what he did is mean
and yeah after he dumps me
he come back to me to ask for my help
what is the favor he ask?
he ask me to help him to tackle a girl
how could that be?
and yeah, to prove that i'm over him
i help him in every way

i guess that we are mean to be bestfriend
but how he ended the r/ship
it just unbelieveable
to be honest,right now
me and him are not friends no more
it just end like that
ackward to meet or have conversation with him
i know i lost a bestfriend but what end just end

now i'm happy with someone else
just to say that bestfriend is not a good candidate to be life partner
your either married them or break the friendship
eventho the friendship is not end
but relationship is not the same as before

but i do have friends which endup with their bestfriends
and they are happily together
they have advantages in knowing each others
but anyhow, who ever we end up with aka married
it is your choice and be happy with it

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